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August 09, 2009

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Fifi Flowers

Wellll... I have no problem with a little drinky poo here and there and in front of children is ok... rip roaring drunk in front of children not good idea. Smoking in front of or around children is a definite NO! Listening to music with headphones on to avoid screaming... OH YEAH... I TOTALLY understand that!
I must say the FASHIONS are FABULOUS in the spread... I would LOVE to wear everything!!!

TERI REES WANG

Just bigger-that-real-life-Fabulous-fashionista-fun!

And better still than "The Nanny Diaries".

David Barrie

This is a hurtful, sardonic and callous - which is *great*! Trophy hedgie girlfriend fails totally to manage trophy child. If I have a 'problem', it's that the last image, by design or accident, looks like it was created to make everything OK - i.e. "...and they all lived happily ever after", or "....no animals were hurt in the making of this movie." Also, the target's a cheap, easy (but God, how beautiful!) shot. Would the photographer dare do the same with, say, five Gulf playboys who ride the city by day in a Bentley and abuse/ignore their wives/girlfriends at night? Think not.

dreamsequins

Bejeweled, pampered New York City mommies... I don't know any mothers like this, but as one friend said to me about motherhood in the metropolis when I was concerned about trading off one lifestyle for another: "You can be as involved as you want to be in your baby's life." Um... really? For some people, maybe... But I would like to think that my life will be completely different.. in a good way once I hit the land of motherhood.

Non-US Vogues always have such controversial, slightly uncomfortable making content like this. Which is a whole lot more interesting than women in Ralph Lauren running around in wild fields.

jennine

yah... i have to agree with the smoking part... but i hate smoking in fashion eds...

HOWEVER, i do love how cutting this story is it really does make you think about the hollywood baby accessory trend that's been going on these past few years....

Ashe Mischief

Perhaps because my parents did it, I tend not to notice smoking in front of children. Though it's possible I was a one in a million case, as I don't smoke (except perhaps twice a year).

I tend not to get up in arms about editorials like this, because it always seems they're making some greater social commentary. This one tends to remind me of the Mad Men-era, wherein women felt begrudged if they had to stay at home and raise the kids, where they had no alternatives, became resentful. At that time, blacks were seen as second rate citizens.

You said, "We've come too far and we've still got a long way to go," and I completely agree. But I think part of that journey is reminding us, often, what it took to get us there. Repulsing us by our past. There are still people who carry these attitudes, and until we can get them to repulsed by it as well, than we really haven't come as far as we think we have....

alexandra keller

as a mommy, i sometimes need a drink, i sometimes want to block out the noise, i sometimes need a cigarette (i don't smoke anymore), or i want Calgon to take me away!

lisa

This is a really thought-provoking editorial. I don't think the last image implies that the rich mommy was misunderstood, but rather that the preceding images of the negligent, smoking, drinking mother were part of some fanciful dream. In the last shot, the mother's hair and makeup are much more natural, and she looks as though she's fallen asleep, completely tuckered out from running around after her toddler (who is still awake and playing with a toy, waiting for Mom to wake up).

Denise @  Swelle

Wow, everyone's comments are so varied. This is interesting; there are so many interpretations and overall everyone is pretty easy-going about the editorial, which wasn't the case elsewhere! People got really heated up.

Dreamsequins: you're right, editorial is always edgier in Europe and Asia. It seemed to me they were having fun. And I think with motherhood and lifestyle, you will give up what you're willing to and you'll hang on with a death grip to what you're not!

Jennine: I can't believe the baby trend didn't occur to me, considering it's on my mind a lot in light of the Hollywood baby boom and rumours of moms on drugs to lose weight and nannies taking care of the kids round the clock.

Ashe: Good point. If the scene was meant to take place in the past, which now I'm sure it was, then it is indeed a good reminder of how times have changed, but also that some insavoury attitudes still prevail.

David Barrie and Lisa: Interesting, your interpretations of the last photo are completely different. Is it a rather offensive band-aid or was it simply all a dream? When I get back to England I'll find that issue and have those last two paragraphs translated. This may help understand Aldridge's intention, though the photos speak volumes regardless.

Fifi, Terri and Alexandra - I like your sense of fun! And the exhausted mom really would see headphones as a coping mechanism!

Michelle

I don't know, it seems rather tasteless to me! Like yeah, the clothes are pretty, but I'm just not a big fan of the trend in fashion, or in general for that matter, to have the "We're doing something borderline (at the very least) offensive! We're so edgy and hip and cool! Look at us!" attitude. Which is definitely how this photo shoot comes off to me. And the shot with the nanny REALLY bothers me, not because racism is worse than child neglect, but racism is still very much a problem in fashion (and of course, elsewhere). I mean, it's relatively rare to to see non-white models, let alone really dark models, on the runway.

I don't think I'd call myself up in arms over it, because quite honestly I've come not to expect any better from the fashion world at large, but it definitely got an eye roll from me.

AngatDorotheasCloset

This reminds me of the book "Mommy Dressing" by Jo Copeland's daughter, Lois Gould. Its not only a great book for fans of fashion (vintage or otherwise) & fashion design but an up close and painfully personal true story about a child growing up in a world not unlike depicted above. Her mother, while not technically a trophy wife as she was a self-made very respected fashion designer, flitted from abusive husband to abusive husband in search of the perfect love...all the while working relentlessly to build her design empire. Her drive to succeed in a business dominated by males coupled with her inability to reconcile the competitive streak with a need to be loved led Jo to drinking and self-alienation. Not unlike Joan Crawford, really, though more emotionally abusive than physical.

Its an interesting narration about a certain faction of society that will always exist, as long as the media and the star struck allow it. To me it appears to take place in several decades....the clothing modern, the decor 60s/70s, the maid servant could be anywhere from the 50s back. There will always be people in way over their heads who cannot see past the insides of their own skulls....people willing to give birth to or adopt children to use as a status symbol (interestingly, the "it bag" trend seems to go hand in hand, with bags big enough to haul said children in!). People willing to abuse hired help, willing to live in a state of denial in their own luxe little bubble, willing to do anything to receive what they perceive as love and adulation.

Sadly its those children (and hired help, I imagine) who suffer for these women's shortcomings. Truly I believe everyone a victim in these cases....no one comes out unscathed, whole and happy. I'm not sure this Vogue shoot does anything to throw light on this sort of behavior, if anything perhaps to mock it a tad. Certainly thought provoking and a great platform for debate!

Ang

WendyB

I love it -- I think it's quite amusing and I bet everyone who worked on it all had a laugh at how some people were going to get their panties in a knot over it.

Jen Laceda

Hmmm, I don't know about this one. I usually have a sense of humour, but this one seems to be hitting a sour note more than a sweet one. Maybe because it's a little bit TOO REAL. I think that's it--what it purports to be fantasy is a bit too real in today's society. So really, maybe this editorial is actually genius!

Chi Darling

I loved reading the comments as much as the post itself (which was brilliant, by the way). I especially enjoyed thinking about the commented theory about how all of the pictures might only be a dream. Oh, and I will also put the 'Mommy Dressing' book on my reading list. ^^

Keep up the good work! I really love this blog. :)

iullia

Awesome! Thanks for posting this article Denise!

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